In a Relationship. A Burden.

people are craving for prince charming and perfect lady to develop a happy ending love story. i would say that the entertainment industry is blameworthy for the result of extolling the merits of LOVE relationship to an overwhelming degree, misleading people to pursue love as displayed on-screen.

some people smirk at the idea of true love, a term that only appears at the dictionary of two puppy-loving-teenagers. some have even given in to the brutal fact that, at the end of the day, all men are the same/all women are the same, sex or money. pathetic, though, but it's undeniably true, for some adults.

a relationship cannot be made up by LOVE alone.

"you are my flower and i'm a shit.

we are meant for each other."

oh, sweet! ... or, sweat?

again, a relationship cannot be comprised of love alone because love is blind. when you love someone you ignore their imperfections and ultimately it makes you biased. you never know if the person you love feels the same way too. it is as if you are indulged in a cip-pak-lak love potion and got dead drunk that you cant help losing yourself.

in fact, both parties need compromise. one of the most fascinating chemical reaction scientists cant experiment in the laboratory is the affection per se which leads both to a willingness to compromise.

sometimes, parents are being unreasonable when it comes to this issue. arguments used by the parents to scare off the guy on the other end of the phone, if you think twice, cannot be established :-

NO TIME no, everybody has 24 hours, it does not make a different how i spend my time.

IT AFFECTS YOUR STUDIES no, government's chop and change education policy confused me more. even tuition teacher cant help, mom.

YOU ARE TOO YOUNG i will get old, anyway, it's just a matter of time. perhaps you are even younger when you know dad.

YOU DONT HAVE MONEY stars and moon are free.

DONT CRY WHEN YOU BREAK UP, DONT CALL ME MOM err, well.. i will call dad.

so all those crap factors do not constitute a burden. what burdens in a relationship is the weight of love.

now a lion fell in love with a lamb *smile* while the time bomb is ticking away.

PS .::... this post is dedicated to mr gan in response to his "Relationship. Not a Burden" which i supposed to publish a month a ago =p paiseh ar its late.

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